Saturday, April 2, 2011

Season of love...

The month of April is upon us and today is the first day that it actually feels like Spring. Sitting here going through my mail and discover 2 invites to weddings. So it is also the season of love. It is refreshing to see folks still willing to give the one thing that makes the world go round another chance...love. I say another chance, cause both of the invites that I received are from folks that have been down that road before. Instead of jumping the broom, they probably should have taken the broom and swept the person out of their life, lol. You live and you learn. Hopefully, lessons have been learned that will take them to "death do us part." Relationships are difficult and require sacrifice. If you desire someone who is sincere and worthy of your love, time, and attention, then you already have to be sincere and worthy of that love, time, and attention. God is not going to give you anything that you are not ready for. Even when God gives it to you, you have to put in work. Nothing is perfect. That is why God has to be that foundation for that relationship, when times get difficult, that is what you stand on. Before all of that, take time to "fix" you. Learn, heal, and forgive. There is a difference between being needy and being needed. Two people who are whole are ready to add or multiply to the other person's life. So bring on the RSVP, gift registries, and wedding cakes...it's the season of love. Even if you don't agree with me, thank you for taking time to see it Jen's way.

2 comments:

  1. I thank God that you are lenting/fasting;dont you know i've been dealing w/martial issues? I agree it's taking sacrifice; you also reminded me that God wouldn't have given us this marriage if we weren't ready for it. We have to learn to be a support to one another. So thank the the HOLY TRINITY;for using you-and you for allowing yourself to be used!

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  2. You are so welcome. If anything I post can help at least one person, then to God be the Glory. I have been receiving phone calls, text msgs, and emails since I posted this one. It is really hitting home with folks. The one thing the enemy hates more than you getting saved is marriages. I will be praying for relationships in general, but especially marriages. God Bless!!!

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