Because It's Really Love...

The season of love continues...So many folks in my life are experiencing this very thing, and it's lovely. A very dear friend of mine will be officially "jumping the broom" this weekend. As long as God stays in the midst, it will be a "till death do us part" situation. God's timing is never our timing. This is what I know to be true: "We don't pick who we fall in love with, and it never happens like it should." When it does happen, there is no denying it. However, most of the time we have to go through "something" to get there. In our 20's, we played or got played. In our 30's, we struggled to recover from our 2nd decade, learned lessons, and got healed. By the time we reach our 40's, we seem to have a better gasp of things. 40 is not the magical decade that everything is perfect, it is however the decade when we come into our own so to speak. Our sense of knowing comes quicker to us. The "list" that we all made has been edited and now seems obtainable. Being over 6ft tall or must have a J.Lo booty is no longer a requirement set in stone. If God is the head of their life, or they love your kids we can work with that. The lesson is I won't try to define love, because it is so complex, it is many things to different people. The blessing is however when you find it, you will know it...Even if you don't agree with me, thank you for taking the time to see it Jen's way.